Look, here’s the reality… your success will start to truly appear when you get d@mn good at connecting with strangers.
We can always make excuses to support the comfort zone that we love so much, which is to just continue ‘networking’ with a bunch of people we already know, but deep down inside, we’re aware that true success ain’t there.
Whether you’re a coach, creator, or entrepreneur, building relationships with new people can open doors to a ton of opportunities. But the key isn’t just making a connection—it’s creating something of value that encourages them to stay.
If you’ve ever felt unsure about how to approach this, keep reading. I’ll share actionable strategies to help you connect with strangers, turn those initial interactions into meaningful relationships, and ultimately build a thriving network and community.
1. Lead With Value First
The fastest way to capture someone’s attention is to offer something that genuinely helps them. Think about the challenges or goals of your ideal audience. Are they struggling to understand digital marketing? Do they need help organizing their business ideas? Whatever their needs, create a resource that addresses them directly.
Examples of high-value offerings include:
- A free eBook or checklist.
- A short video series explaining a core concept.
- A template or tool they can use immediately.
Now, this is one of the reasons why so many coaches are saying that it’s important to niche, because people are going to connect with you easier and faster IF they feel that your content and value is FOR THEM.
If you’re out here trying to help ‘EVERYBODY’… you’ll end up helping NOBODY.
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Here’s the other thing about value. It’s important that you try to understand it more than your audience so you can start to not only speak the language but speak the ‘Captivating Language’… more on this in a separate post.
2. Build Trust With a Personal Touch
When you connect with strangers, authenticity matters. Sending a cold message or posting generic content rarely works. Instead, craft personalized outreach that shows you’ve taken the time to understand who they are and what they care about.
A few ways to personalize your approach:
- Mention their recent social media post or achievement.
- Offer specific feedback on something they’ve shared.
- Share a resource or insight tailored to their interests.
- Record a brief video to introduce yourself
Once you’ve made the connection, invite them to join your newsletter or community. This step is crucial—it allows you to stay top-of-mind and deepen the relationship over time.
3. Make It Easy to Join Your Community
The best communities are easy to access and provide clear value. Whether you’re inviting someone to a Facebook group, a Slack channel, or a newsletter, ensure the process is simple. Highlight what they’ll gain by joining, such as:
- Exclusive access to tips and resources.
- Opportunities to engage with like-minded individuals.
- Live coaching or Q&A sessions.
4. Nurture Relationships With Consistent Value
Once someone is in your orbit, the real work begins. Nurturing relationships is all about showing up consistently with value. Here’s how you can keep your community engaged:
- Send regular newsletters with actionable insights.
- Host live events or webinars to foster connection.
- Share wins, lessons learned, or even failures to humanize yourself.
- Send videos… SEND VIDEOS!!
Remember, your goal is to build a relationship, not just grow your list. When people feel genuinely connected to you, they’ll not only stay—they’ll also bring others into your community.
5. Invite Them Into Something Bigger
There’s something powerful about belonging to a community that helps people grow. If you’re building something meaningful, invite people to be a part of it. Share your mission, your vision, and your goals. Paint a picture of the impact they’ll experience by joining.
At Amplified Inbound All-Access, our goal is to help entrepreneurs and creators like you thrive. With access to our library of resources, live coaching sessions, and a network of supportive peers, you’ll be equipped to grow your business and connect with others in meaningful ways.
If you’re ready to take the next step, join Amplified Inbound All-Access today. You’ll gain access to eBooks, templates, and coaching designed to help you grow your business and connect with others at a deeper level.
Let’s turn strangers into supporters and supporters into a thriving community.
